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Master's in Psychology (Child Development). Master's in Education. Host of the Your Parenting Mojo podcast. Author of Parenting Beyond Power. As seen on NPR, Parents, San Francisco Chronicle
Jen has spent over a decade reading the original research on child development - not the headlines, the actual studies - and translating it into tools parents can use in real life.
As a Co-Active Coach, she will listen to you in a way that most parents tell her they've never experienced before.
From there, she draws on extensive training on working with neurodivergent families (including ADHD, Autism, and PDA), trauma & parts work, and couples' communication to help you build strategies that work for your specific family.
Her work is grounded in the belief that everyone's needs matter equally - children's and adults' both - and that the way we parent has the power to change far more than what happens in our homes.
Listened to podcasts.
Maybe even tried scripts.
Listened to podcasts.
Maybe even tried scripts.
judgmental corner of the internet”
parents - who become friends
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covering 12 topics in your first year
judgmental corner of the internet”
parents - who become friends
answer you myself
with Jen - recorded as well
covering 12 topics in your first year
In our online community, small ACTion groups, and coaching calls, you’ll be known by name - you won’t be lost in a crowd of strangers.
Accountability that makes it stick. Structure and regular touchpoints help you close the gap between knowing and doing. Show up your way.
Some members watch every video the month it's posted, while others only join the monthly coaching call. Some just read posts in the online community, and more see their ACTion groups as their community.
Choose the accountability that works for you.
Get coached by Jen directly
This isn’t a course where you get to see me in videos but can never ask questions. Join me every month for a live call where we can talk directly about your specific situation.
In our online community, small ACTion groups, and coaching calls, you’ll be known by name - you won’t be lost in a crowd of strangers.
Accountability that makes it stick. Structure and regular touchpoints help you close the gap between knowing and doing. Show up your way.
Some members watch every video the month it's posted, while others only join the monthly coaching call. Some just read posts in the online community, and more see their ACTion groups as their community.
Choose the accountability that works for you.
Get coached by Jen directly
This isn’t a course where you get to see me in videos but can never ask questions. Join me every month for a live call where we can talk directly about your specific situation.
What members say
"Jen's body of work has been an incredible blessing to our family.
The community that's been built with the Parenting Membership is incredible, and I just love how deep the materials and the conversations go on the calls - this is not a membership for surface-level thoughts!
We are vulnerable, we process deeply and we build better futures for ourselves, our children and the generations to come. So grateful for Jen and this community!"Kesha
"My Autistic son was hitting at preschool almost daily. I have a doctorate in clinical psychology and I trained in behavior-based approaches - and nothing was working.
From the moment I stopped making compliance the goal, the hitting stopped. And now his preschool principal calls me just to tell me how remarkable he is."Houri
"I really wanted that village. I was feeling isolated as a parent - there's nobody in my everyday life parenting this way.
I knew I needed community, and I found it here."Akiko
"My neurodivergent kiddo was six and starting to dread school drop-off. I used to just push through it, and tell him he'd be fine. After learning about Jen's work I asked him what he was feeling in his body, and what he needed. He told me, for the first time really: all the kids are looking at me, I'm scared, and I need you there because you help me feel safe.
Once I knew that, I saw why telling him he would be fine wasn't working. We got him a stuffy he could hold onto. We worked out a hand-off with his teacher, so there was always someone he trusted right there.
We moved forward faster than any strategy we'd tried the year before, because we were finally solving the right problem. Not: 'How do I get him into the classroom?' but: 'How do I help him feel safe?"Kerry
"I knew enough from the parenting content I'd listened to that emotions and big behavior - it's communication, it's your child letting you know they're not okay. And I got that with my head. But when he was angry, I was really struggling not to feel angry back at him. I was trying different things but nothing was really working.
His big expressions of anger that used to take 45 minutes to work through are now over and done within 10 minutes. And the shift for me has been seismic and huge and life changing."Jenny
"YPM has improved my relationships with my two kids, my husband, and myself.
I made huge strides working through childhood trauma and while it's still an ongoing journey, I feel so much stronger and more resilient than before.
Understanding yourself is such an important piece of parenting and I am thankful to YPM for helping me see that."Erin
"Jen's body of work has been an incredible blessing to our family.
The community that's been built with the Parenting Membership is incredible, and I just love how deep the materials and the conversations go on the calls - this is not a membership for surface-level thoughts!
We are vulnerable, we process deeply and we build better futures for ourselves, our children and the generations to come. So grateful for Jen and this community!"
Kesha
"My Autistic son was hitting at preschool almost daily. I have a doctorate in clinical psychology and I trained in behavior-based approaches - and nothing was working.
From the moment I stopped making compliance the goal, the hitting stopped. And now his preschool principal calls me just to tell me how remarkable he is."
Houri
"I really wanted that village. I was feeling isolated as a parent - there's nobody in my everyday life parenting this way.
I knew I needed community, and I found it here."
Akiko
"My neurodivergent kiddo was six and starting to dread school drop-off. I used to just push through it, and tell him he'd be fine. After learning about Jen's work I asked him what he was feeling in his body, and what he needed. He told me, for the first time really: all the kids are looking at me, I'm scared, and I need you there because you help me feel safe.
Once I knew that, I saw why telling him he would be fine wasn't working. We got him a stuffy he could hold onto. We worked out a hand-off with his teacher, so there was always someone he trusted right there.
We moved forward faster than any strategy we'd tried the year before, because we were finally solving the right problem. Not: 'How do I get him into the classroom?' but: 'How do I help him feel safe?"
Kerry
"I knew enough from the parenting content I'd listened to that emotions and big behavior - it's communication, it's your child letting you know they're not okay. And I got that with my head. But when he was angry, I was really struggling not to feel angry back at him. I was trying different things but nothing was really working.
His big expressions of anger that used to take 45 minutes to work through are now over and done within 10 minutes. And the shift for me has been seismic and huge and life changing."
Jenny
"YPM has improved my relationships with my two kids, my husband, and myself.
I made huge strides working through childhood trauma and while it's still an ongoing journey, I feel so much stronger and more resilient than before.
Understanding yourself is such an important piece of parenting and I am thankful to YPM for helping me see that."
Erin
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