Your child (aged 1-10)
doesn't listen
doesn't listen
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You're dealing with meltdowns. Hitting. Sibling fights - multiple times a day.
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And nothing you've tried has worked.
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You don’t need more scripts. I’ll help you see what’s behind the behavior - and help you make a plan for your specific child.
1 hour: leave with a plan for your specific child.
You already know a lot. That's not the problem.
You've probably read books.
Listened to podcasts.
Maybe even tried scripts.
Listened to podcasts.
Maybe even tried scripts.
You know how you want to parent. But when your child’s behavior pushes your buttons, everything you know goes out the window.
But the reason you're working this hard isn't just to stop the hitting. You’re trying to raise your kids differently than the way you were raised - to create a childhood your child won't have to recover from.
Information alone hasn’t been enough. You need support, accountability, and a village who understands why this is so important to you.
You already know a lot. That's not the problem.
You've probably read books.
Listened to podcasts.
Maybe even tried scripts.
Listened to podcasts.
Maybe even tried scripts.
You know how you want to parent. But when your child’s behavior pushes your buttons, everything you know goes out the window.
But the reason you're working this hard isn't just to stop the hitting. You’re trying to raise your kids differently than the way you were raised - to create a childhood your child won't have to recover from.
START HERE: STOP THE BEHAVIOR BATTLES
Hitting, Meltdowns, and Not Listening:
See What's Driving It and Make a Plan That Works
See What's Driving It and Make a Plan That Works
A 1-hour masterclass for parents of children ages 1-10. Watch anytime.
Why this behavior is happening -
for your specific child, not a generic one
for your specific child, not a generic one
Why the approaches you’ve tried (like
limits and consequences) aren’t
working - and what to do instead
limits and consequences) aren’t
working - and what to do instead
A concrete plan you can start using today.
You’ll build it during the masterclass.
You’ll build it during the masterclass.
START HERE: STOP THE BEHAVIOR BATTLES
Hitting, Meltdowns, and Not Listening: See What's Driving It and Make a Plan That Works
Your Host: Jen Lumanlan
Your Host: Jen Lumanlan
Master's in Psychology (Child Development). Master's in Education. Host of the Your Parenting Mojo podcast. Author of Parenting Beyond Power. As seen on NPR, Parents, San Francisco Chronicle
Jen has spent over a decade reading the original research on child development - not the headlines, the actual studies - and translating it into tools parents can use in real life.
As a Co-Active Coach, she will listen to you in a way that most parents tell her they've never experienced before.
From there, she draws on extensive training on working with neurodivergent families (including ADHD, Autism, and PDA), trauma & parts work, and couples' communication to help you build strategies that work for your specific family.
Her work is grounded in the belief that everyone's needs matter equally - children's and adults' both - and that the way we parent has the power to change far more than what happens in our homes.
4M+ Downloads
Best Research-Based Parenting Podcast - Lifehacker
250+ episodes - each backed by ~25 research papers
4M+ Downloads
Best Research-Based Parenting Podcast - Lifehacker
250+ episodes - each backed by ~25 research papers
4M+ Downloads
Best Research-Based Parenting Podcast - Lifehacker
250+ episodes - each backed by ~25 research papers
4M+ Downloads
Best Research-Based Parenting Podcast - Lifehacker
250+ episodes - each backed by ~25 research papers
4M+ Downloads
Best Research-Based Parenting Podcast - Lifehacker
250+ episodes - each backed by ~25 research papers
4M+ Downloads
Best Research-Based Parenting Podcast - Lifehacker
250+ episodes - each backed by ~25 research papers
FOR PARENTS WHO ARE DONE DOING IT ALONE.
The Hitting, Meltdowns, & Not Listening Masterclass
gives you a starting point.
gives you a starting point.
The Parenting Membership is where you keep going - with live coaching, a values-aligned community, and tools for every challenge that comes after the hitting and the meltdowns.
THE COMMUNITY
Parents call it: “The least
judgmental corner of the internet”
judgmental corner of the internet”
ACTION GROUP
Small groups of values-aligned
parents - who become friends
parents - who become friends
DIRECT ACCESS TO JEN
Ask your question, and I’ll
answer you myself
answer you myself
GROUP COACHING CALLS
Monthly live group coaching calls
with Jen - recorded as well
with Jen - recorded as well
THE CONTENT LIBRARY
A research-based curriculum
covering 12 topics in your first year
covering 12 topics in your first year
When Generic Fails
Also for neurodivergent families, & partners who parent differently.
Most advice assumes neurotypical kids, and partners who agree. We can help when either of both isn't true.
FOR PARENTS WHO ARE DONE DOING IT ALONE.
The Hitting, Meltdowns, & Not Listening Masteclass gives you a starting point.
The Parenting Membership is where you keep going - with live coaching, a values-aligned community, and tools for every challenge that comes after the hitting and the meltdowns.
THE COMMUNITY
Parents call it: “The least
judgmental corner of the internet”
judgmental corner of the internet”
ACTION GROUP
Small groups of values-aligned
parents - who become friends
parents - who become friends
DIRECT ACCESS TO JEN
Ask your question, and I’ll
answer you myself
answer you myself
GROUP COACHING CALLS
Monthly live group coaching calls
with Jen - recorded as well
with Jen - recorded as well
THE CONTENT LIBRARY
A research-based curriculum
covering 12 topics in your first year
covering 12 topics in your first year
When Generic Fails
Also for neurodivergent families, & partners who parent differently.
Most advice assumes neurotypical kids, and partners who agree. We can help when either of both isn't true.
A tight-knit community where you can be seen and known. No group of 100,000 strangers here!
In our online community, small ACTion groups, and coaching calls, you’ll be known by name - you won’t be lost in a crowd of strangers.
In our online community, small ACTion groups, and coaching calls, you’ll be known by name - you won’t be lost in a crowd of strangers.
Accountability that makes it stick. Structure and regular touchpoints help you close the gap between knowing and doing. Show up your way.
Some members watch every video the month it's posted, while others only join the monthly coaching call. Some just read posts in the online community, and more see their ACTion groups as their community.
Choose the accountability that works for you.
call
Get coached by Jen directly
This isn’t a course where you get to see me in videos but can never ask questions. Join me every month for a live call where we can talk directly about your specific situation.
A tight-knit community where you can be seen and known. No group of 100,000 strangers here!
In our online community, small ACTion groups, and coaching calls, you’ll be known by name - you won’t be lost in a crowd of strangers.
In our online community, small ACTion groups, and coaching calls, you’ll be known by name - you won’t be lost in a crowd of strangers.
Accountability that makes it stick. Structure and regular touchpoints help you close the gap between knowing and doing. Show up your way.
Some members watch every video the month it's posted, while others only join the monthly coaching call. Some just read posts in the online community, and more see their ACTion groups as their community.
Choose the accountability that works for you.
call
Get coached by Jen directly
This isn’t a course where you get to see me in videos but can never ask questions. Join me every month for a live call where we can talk directly about your specific situation.
What members say
What members say
"I knew enough from the parenting content I'd listened to that emotions and big behavior - it's communication, it's your child letting you know they're not okay. And I got that with my head. But when he was angry, I was really struggling not to feel angry back at him. I was trying different things but nothing was really working.
His big expressions of anger that used to take 45 minutes to work through are now over and done within 10 minutes. And the shift for me has been seismic and huge and life changing."Jenny
"My Autistic son was hitting at preschool almost daily. I have a doctorate in clinical psychology and I trained in behavior-based approaches - and nothing was working.
From the moment I stopped making compliance the goal, the hitting stopped. And now his preschool principal calls me just to tell me how remarkable he is."Houri
"I really wanted that village. I was feeling isolated as a parent - there's nobody in my everyday life parenting this way.
I knew I needed community, and I found it here."Akiko
Not ready yet? Watch the masterclass first
"I knew enough from the parenting content I'd listened to that emotions and big behavior - it's communication, it's your child letting you know they're not okay. And I got that with my head. But when he was angry, I was really struggling not to feel angry back at him. I was trying different things but nothing was really working.
His big expressions of anger that used to take 45 minutes to work through are now over and done within 10 minutes. And the shift for me has been seismic and huge and life changing."Jenny
"My Autistic son was hitting at preschool almost daily. I have a doctorate in clinical psychology and I trained in behavior-based approaches - and nothing was working.
From the moment I stopped making compliance the goal, the hitting stopped. And now his preschool principal calls me just to tell me how remarkable he is."Houri
"I really wanted that village. I was feeling isolated as a parent - there's nobody in my everyday life parenting this way.
I knew I needed community, and I found it here."Akiko
Not ready yet? Watch the masterclass first
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