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I want to understand my child better
  
My child's behavior is confusing or frustrating, and I want to figure out what they actually need.
  
My own reactions surprise me
  
I find myself yelling or getting angry in ways that don't match the parent I want to be.
  

Identifying Your Child's Needs Quiz

Parent Anger Quiz

 

Your child is trying to tell you: "I HAVE NEEDS!"

 
 

They just don't always know how to communicate those needs in a way you can easily understand.​​​​​​​

 
 

This quiz helps you decode what needs your child's difficult behavior is communicating.

 
 

When you meet their needs more often, your needs for peace, ease, and collaboration get met more often too.

 
 

When your child expresses emotions you learned to hide or asserts boundaries you learned to ignore, your body remembers and reacts strongly.

 
 

You developed these patterns in childhood when big emotions weren't welcome, your needs came second, or love came with conditions.​​​​​​​

 
 

This quiz helps you understand how your childhood patterns show up in your parenting today.

 
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START THE CHILD'S NEEDS QUIZ
settings
START THE PARENT ANGER QUIZ

Identifying Your Child's Needs Quiz

 

Your child is trying to tell you: "I HAVE NEEDS!"

 
 

They just don't always know how to communicate those needs in a way you can easily understand.​​​​​​​

 
 

This quiz helps you decode what needs your child's difficult behavior is communicating.

 
 

When you meet their needs more often, your needs for peace, ease, and collaboration get met more often too.

 
settings
START THE CHILD'S NEEDS QUIZ

Parent Anger Quiz

 

When your child expresses emotions you learned to hide or asserts boundaries you learned to ignore, your body remembers and reacts strongly.

 
 

You developed these patterns in childhood when big emotions weren't welcome, your needs came second, or love came with conditions.​​​​​​​

 
 

This quiz helps you understand how your childhood patterns show up in your parenting today.

 
settings
START THE PARENT ANGER QUIZ

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